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Why Dialogue and Respect are Keys to a Flourishing Society

The importance of respectful dialogue with those with opposing views has recently become particularly relevant online. The podcast ALTBAYS Show (produced in the Coromandel, Aotearoa New Zealand) faced significant backlash and attempts to stop them from featuring a porn actor in one of their episodes.

Despite the controversy, ALTBAYS Show organisers stressed the importance of engaging in respectful dialogue with those with different views. They recognised that featuring a porn actor on their podcast might not please everyone; however, they believed providing a platform for diverse perspectives and promoting acceptance was important.

Segregating ourselves into ideological echo chambers can make us miss opportunities for growth and learning. Refusing to engage with those with opposing views can lead to hostile and intolerant attitudes towards them. This can create a toxic environment where people feel marginalised and excluded, leading to social unrest and conflict.  

So how can we ensure that we engage in respectful conversation with those on the opposite side of the spectrum? Firstly, it is important to approach these conversations with an open mind and a willingness to listen. This means putting aside our preconceived notions and being willing to consider different perspectives.

Secondly, we should strive to create a safe space where people feel comfortable expressing their views, by avoiding personal attacks and focusing on the issues.

It is important to remember that respect is a two-way street. If we want others to respect our views, we must also be willing to respect theirs, even if we disagree.

By engaging in respectful dialogue and creating a safe and inclusive environment, we can learn from each other and work towards a more harmonious and tolerant world. Let us all strive to be more open-minded for the betterment of ourselves and our communities.

Click here to visit the ALTBAYS Show Youtube Channel.

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